In the previous blog entries, many would have heard that I sort of like given up on love and relationships and it ain't like gonna happen for me at all....and just as I was making myself a statement on it again. It happened .... THE MIRACLE. Holy God, it really did happen to me afterall because I never believed that it did. She was just a mutual friend of one of my friends..who'd introduced her to me as his effort to allow me to expand my circle of friends of the opposite gender. He was damn sure that she would be the ONE to sweep me off my feet. Of course, in the first meet-up session was a subtle affair with me forever playing the 'cool hand' and display no emotions or feeling acting neutral throughout and occasionally showing the SBC (simply bo chap) attitude. It was later which my friend revealed that after our first meet-up that she kept calling him to enquire more information about me and naturally my friend told her to find out about me from me. Then I took the first initiative by asking her out for a movie, to see how was the outcome....guess what, she agreed to go out with me. I was of course happy and excited but have to stay focused throughout for all the signs. I booked tickets to watch a movie, never realizing that she actually watched it already on Thursday. On the eventful evening which I was expecting for since I really don't remember when, because I last dated a woman out in the mid-90s who'd happened to be the only woman of my life then till now, and something bad happened to me. I injured myself badly during the course my work around late afternoon, and I was thinking to myself what bad luck I am dealt with. I endured all the pain and made the date, as I know from the suffering of the excruciating pain I will find warmth in the heart and soul. She was on the hand, was very touched by the fact that I really made the effort to make the date knowingly that most would have postponed it after suffering the injury I had. To be frank throughout the date, she showered me with care and concern which I'd say I never felt it before even from my ex-wife, and of course I was very touched and grateful. She'd even made me promise to call her after seeing a doctor about my injury to tell her of the outcome of the consultation as it was a bad injury.

Thank GOD, the injury was not as severe as initially perceived as it was more swelling related rather that ligamental or bone related. After medication was taken, the excruciating pain which I was suffering from reduced gradually and similarly the swelling. We went out for date #2 together with her daughter, and I guessed for her, it is important because if her daughter accepts me. It would be a moral boost for her as it means that her daughter would definitely accepts me as the next best thing to a parent. We spent sometime 'quame' together as my buddy took care of her daughter, by looking out for her at the playground. At the end the evening, she told me to rest well.... Guess now maybe she is the ONE.....but let's see....stay tuned for the saga of Sam finally found someone.....hahaha!!!